我也談港姐

近日傳媒及網上不斷有人評擊新一屆港姐張嘉兒沒資格當選，甚至形容她是「女版孔慶祥」…哇!洗"o吾"洗"o甘"刻薄呀!講真，雖然佢"o吾"算天姿國色，但係OK喎，大大方方，又有學歷，好過「翻版黎姿」好多先啦!
其實我估D人點解"o甘"大反應係因為張小姐衰一樣o野….面太大!!作為面大一族的我，好明白面大"o既"難處，就算個身幾瘦都好，塊面o既體積係o吾會按比例細D "o架"喎。但係面大代"o吾"代表"o吾"靚呢? I don't think so! 只係近年香港吹瘦身風，個個都話瘦就是美，加上出鏡肥十磅的道理，對張小姐"o既"要求自然又高D。
其實塊面小小圓圓地都幾好，起碼比人覺得友善D，後生D，仲有呀，鍾楚紅、梁韻蕊、張曼玉當選時都係面圓圓地，又"o吾"見佢地比人丙!(雖然D例子out out地，but it's true!)

張小姐，我撐你!

愛一個人

愛一個人是要互相慰問，而不是彼此質問。

愛一個人是要互相傾訴，而不是彼此控訴。

愛一個人是要互相交流，而不是凡事交待。

愛一個人是要互相浪漫，而不是彼此浪費。

愛一個人是要互相牽手，而不是隨便分手。

愛一個人是要互相接受，而不是彼此忍受。

愛一個人是要互相寬容，而不是彼此縱容。
愛一個人是要互相支持，而不是彼此支配。

愛一個人是要互相了解，也要彼此開解。

愛一個人是要互相道歉，也要彼此道謝。

愛一個人是要互相認錯，也要彼此改錯。

愛一個人是要互相體貼，也要彼此體諒。

愛一個人是要為對方默默祈求，而不是向對方諸多要求。

愛一個人是要向對方隨時鼓勵，而不是向對方凡事嚴厲。

愛一個人是要愛得及時，而不是愛得太晚。

摘自http://www.ziondaily.com/chi/daily/

感想

星期天將與團契一行十一人看Transformers，對我來說已很久沒有出席這些活動。

參加了這個團契不經不覺已十年，還記得是好友C帶我回來的，初來的時候超級多人，我想約有80人，用了一段時間才習慣。後來教會到將軍澳植堂，團契約有一半人願意到將軍澳去，人數便降至40人左右。在這團契裡我曾經用心付出過，做過組長、敬拜隊、副團長、團長，期間亦認識了好些弟兄姊妹如P姊妹、K姊妹、一眾COT等，我們一起經歷、一起成長。

近一、兩年來，自己對團契的投入程度大減，除了想抽多點時間給家人及「未來家人」外，一些我看到及聽到的事情，令我覺得有些失望: 當跌倒時得到的是指責多於安慰、分享新工作時得到的是眉頭一皺…是我太敏感嗎?是我將自己的需要放得太大嗎? 是我開始計較嗎?還是我仍放不下這裡的人和事?

算吧!順其自然吧…我不要再做一個別人眼中的「好姊妹」，我只要做一個蒙天父憐憫、寬恕的平凡人。

新工

靜...很靜...
埋頭苦幹
不聊天，不說笑
吃飯去，回家去．．．

靜...很靜...
沒競爭沒壓力
不思前，不戀後
靜靜地，結婚去．．．

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Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is high. You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person. And in return, you expect the same from who you love. Any sign of straying, and you'll end things. Experience Level: Your experience level is high. You've loved, lost, and loved again. You have had a wide range of love experiences. And when the real thing comes along, you know it! Dominance: Your dominance is low. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced. You know a relationship is not about getting your way. And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom. Cynicism: Your cynicism is medium. You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love... But you've definitely been burned enough to know better. You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist. Independence: Your independence is medium. In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time." You usually find it easy to be part of a couple. But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered.

The Five Variable Love Test

I'm back!

I have been experiencing some technical problem with my home PC...just can't login to Blogger.com...someone tried to fix it but still not working....

Anyway, here I am..at his house...trying to update my blog and write down something that's been happening to me these past few months...

I quitted the CU job...this was the shortest job I even had..only three months but it's like hell there...I told myself not to work for a tertiary institute anymore and never work for some small projects...anyway, it's over...don't look back.

Next Wed, I'll start a new job as a Education Officer for two international schools...in China. The main office is in HK but the schools are in Guanzhou so need to travel there from time to time...this job was the one I have the most confidence in among the other two offers...I guess that's what "follow your heart" means alongside with prayers. I am sick and tired of changing jobs anymore and really want to settle down...hopefully I won't tell you about any job changes here.