真係要萬事俱備先得??

真係要萬事俱備先得??

時間無多喇噃...

錢可以一路儲,但係有D"o野"過咗就無lu...

你有你嘅point,我有我嘅point,

哎...點好呢?

請天父賜教!!

Post Wedding

IT'S OVER!! After a year long preparation, 08032008 is finally over.

I am very happy with everything that happened on that day. From head to toe, all my good helpers handled them so well...I didn't have to care a bit.

Now I am enjoying my life as Mrs Chung, it's quite amazing and happy to be married.

Hopefully 10, 20, 30 or even 40 yers later, I can still call myself "A Happy Bride"!!

回來

自從你轉新工要往新加坡training，轉眼已一個月，明天晚上你終於要回來了！

在這一個月對我們來說是一個挑戰，你要面對新的工作，新同事；而我要獨自面對你的家人及婚禮的籌備工作，感恩我們都做到了．

明天開始至3月７日，又是另一輪的挑戰，相信有你在這裡一齊都會輕鬆一點！

Welcome back!　

忍o下啦!!

剛收到好友經過數月o既interview後，終於搵到份好工，唔駛再station係大陸，十分戥佢開心。我自己呢份工做左４個幾月，北上開過幾次會，籌備緊一個student visit，但總括o黎講，向呢度學到o既東西近乎零，大部分時間我係無乜o野做，上網blogging就係我做得最多o既事。其實我好努力o禁執左個 filing system，睇完以前 d correspondence，但係問題最大既原因係我個老板開 o既兩間國際學校都係國內，上面有完善既人力物力，我就係一個老板請返黎坐響度做下liaison "o既"工作，其實請個part-time已經ok，我有時悶到唔知做乜好，覺得自己可以有多D貢獻...公司其他業務o既同事大多數做左十幾年，唔多同其他人溝通，個個都好似自閉o甘...

哎！鬼叫佢又比得到我要o既人工，自己又要結婚，大Al又要搵份新工，等下啦，有筍工先算啦！

I just want to be more productive during the 8 hours in the office!!

p.s. 亦係呢份工, 悶到打破左我o甘多年係office唔食零食o既習慣, 一悶就食糖...利口樂/好立克糖/橡皮糖...

我們的婚禮

仲有4個月就到big day喇! 都籌備得差不多，有時我會睇下人o地D wedding blog取下經，諗落而家我同大Al個婚禮已經唔係一個我地夢想o既婚禮 :( 不過老人家開心就ok啦...

大Al，our hope is our honeymoon!

錯過

「這一生中，你錯過了什麼？」

太太在二十五歲時問丈夫，丈夫沮喪的回答她：「我錯過一個新的工作機會。」
三十五歲時，丈夫生氣的告訴她：「我剛錯過了一班公車。」
四十五歲時，丈夫傷心的說：「我錯過與親人見最後一面。」
五十五歲時，丈夫失望的回答：「我錯過了退休的好時機。」
六十五歲時，丈夫匆匆的答說：「我錯過了看牙醫的時間。」 　

一如往常的，太太總是回以微笑，而微笑中總帶著落寞。

七十五歲那年，太太不再問先生了，此時，先生正跪坐在病危的太太面前，想起太太每隔一段時間，總要問他的問題，他反過來問太太，而太太的微笑中帶著解脫回答:「這一生，我沒有錯過你！」此時，先生早已淚流滿面，原以為兩人可以永遠在一起，所以，終日忙著工作與繁瑣的事，卻從不曾用心體貼朝夕相處的另一半，先生緊抱著太太說：「這輩子，我錯過妳五十年來的深情……」

繁忙的都市裡，有著許多為工作打拚的人，大家總習慣於把工作當成生活的重心，為了滿足社會的價值，不惜出賣自己的時間與身體，捨不得多花時間投資健康，以至於錯過了陪同孩子成長的機會、忽略了身旁關心自己的親友、輕忽了自己的身體。

珍惜，果真要在錯過後才能感受？ 可怕的是，你明知如此的工作與生活必然將一再的錯過一切的美好，而你卻又無可奈何的看著自己一路錯過下去，無計可施.....

人世無常，趕緊把握當下，把心中的感激告訴愛你的人、用行動關心你的家人，把每一天都當成人生的最後一段，即使走了，也能讓自己及身旁的人了無遺憾。

A song for you on this special day

We're a Miracle-Christina Aguilera
Here we are
Safe at last
We can breathe a sigh
It seems the storm has passed
Through it all
No one knew
That all the tears in heaven
Would bring me back to you
No one I know
Imagined we would make it
But it only matters that we both believed, oh

(Chorus:)
You and me, we're a miracle
Meant to be, and nothing can change it
Mountains move and oceans part
When they are standing in our way
You and me, we're a miracle
Angels stand watching over us
And heaven shines upon us ev'ry day

Ev'ry time
I felt near defeat
You were there for me
On my side completely
You give me strength, oh
You set me free, yeah, yeah
This is because of you
I'm more than I can be, oh
When I'm with you
The world is ours to reach for
Together, there is nothing we can't do

(Repeat chorus)

(Bridge:)
The chance was so unlikely
That we would ever be, oh
Two stars among the heavens
Destiny brought you to me

(Repeat chorus)

You and me, we're a miracle (miracle)
You and me, we're a miracle (miracle)
Miracle

因為......，所以美好。

見人寫我又寫先:

因為就放工, 所以美好。

因為今晚佳人有約 ，所以美好。

因為就o黎升級做亞姨 ，所以美好。

因為身體健康，所以美好。

因為重有七個月就做鍾太，所以美好。

因為身邊有好多好友，所以美好。

因為落雨有帶遮，所以美好。

因為婚後唔使供樓，所以美好。

因為"目訓"得好左，所以美好。

因為有人幫我婚禮獻詩，所以美好。

因為某人好好，所以美好。

因為日日唔駛煮飯就有得食，所以美好。

因為就快有張學友concert睇，所以美好。

因為爸媽幾辛苦都供我去讀書，所以美好。

因為世上有小朋友，所以美好。

因為有音樂，所以美好。

因為可以選擇的自由，所以美好。

因為香港無乜貪污，所以美好。

因為天父仍讓我每天想起祂，所以美好。

因為天父天天看顧，所以美好。

學mad dog話齋:平淡的一天 ，要學習感恩。

愛一個人

愛一個人是要互相慰問，而不是彼此質問。

愛一個人是要互相傾訴，而不是彼此控訴。

愛一個人是要互相交流，而不是凡事交待。

愛一個人是要互相浪漫，而不是彼此浪費。

愛一個人是要互相牽手，而不是隨便分手。

愛一個人是要互相接受，而不是彼此忍受。

愛一個人是要互相寬容，而不是彼此縱容。
愛一個人是要互相支持，而不是彼此支配。

愛一個人是要互相了解，也要彼此開解。

愛一個人是要互相道歉，也要彼此道謝。

愛一個人是要互相認錯，也要彼此改錯。

愛一個人是要互相體貼，也要彼此體諒。

愛一個人是要為對方默默祈求，而不是向對方諸多要求。

愛一個人是要向對方隨時鼓勵，而不是向對方凡事嚴厲。

愛一個人是要愛得及時，而不是愛得太晚。

摘自http://www.ziondaily.com/chi/daily/

The Five Variable Love Test

Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is high. You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person. And in return, you expect the same from who you love. Any sign of straying, and you'll end things. Experience Level: Your experience level is high. You've loved, lost, and loved again. You have had a wide range of love experiences. And when the real thing comes along, you know it! Dominance: Your dominance is low. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced. You know a relationship is not about getting your way. And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom. Cynicism: Your cynicism is medium. You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love... But you've definitely been burned enough to know better. You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist. Independence: Your independence is medium. In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time." You usually find it easy to be part of a couple. But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered.

The Five Variable Love Test

For one more day

Just finished "For One More Day" by Mitch Albom. I'm not going into details about this book but sure it's a good one..it made me think of the followng questions...maybe you can ponder on them too...

What will you do if.....

you can be with your lost loved one...for one more day?

you can stay in your old job...for one more day?

you can go back to high school or college...for one more day?

you can be single again (if you're married)....for one more day?

you can have your best vocation....for one more day?

you can extend the due day of your credit card payment...for one more day?

One day seems short but sometimes you want to trade it with everything you've got.....

How nice!

2.12

Dinner for 2 at Le Mieux Bistro for his birthday

2.13

Happy birthday to you , Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday to you..........Happy birthday to you (Too bad that you had company dinner :( )

2.14

V-Day dinner at home....and ........he poped the question!!

We're engaged!!

Just wait a little longer....

Just wait a little longer...just a little longer..

Losing faith? Losing patience? Exhausted?

Hang in there....

One day you'll know..it's all worth it....

For every good and perfect gifts comes from the Lord!

一場好戲

昨晚看到星期日檔案一個名為"我們一起撒個謊"的documentary，內容講述一個八歲居於長春的小女孩「欣月」的故事，她患了一種最嚴重的腦癌而雙目失明。他爸爸為了尋找有心人協助，聯絡當地一份報章《城市晚報》，一場好戲便由此誕生。

小欣月向記者透露她的心願是到北京天安門看升旗儀式，但礙於身體狀況不佳，不宜遠行。但為了不讓小欣月失望，報章編輯作了一個決定: 召集讀者一起撒謊去令欣月的夢想實現。

<城市晚報>故事詳情: http://hk.geocities.com/kevin_0207/touchinggirlstory.htm
CCTV新聞報導: http://www.u-file.net/f-Bo73igwFO

跟很多香港人一樣，自己對內地人也有一些偏見，但看到這故事後發覺其實很多內地人的心仍是十分單純，例如那位公車司機及導遊，完全沒想過可做些甚麼或得到甚麼回報，只憑著一夥幫助人的心而作出回應。

另外香港的傳媒近年來不斷以"煲水新聞"及揭藝人瘡疤吸引讀者，他們是否還記得傳媒應付的社會責任呢?他們會否像《城市晚報》一樣，肯花那麼多的人力物力，只為了圓一個女孩的夢?

吸引力

今天再往保良局探望助養的小孩「朗朗」，每一次探訪也會跟母親一起前往，但不知為什麼每次「朗朗」都只肯給我抱，母親想抱一下他也不肯，母親說因為我跟他有緣woh！

我不敢說這番話有多準確，但我相信人與人之間是有一種特殊的吸引力，無論是朋友也好，情人也好，甚至是上司下屬也好，都需要靠這種吸引力維繫，再漸漸建立更深厚的關係。你可以影認識兩個性格、外型甚至背景都很相似的人，但只和其中一人成為密友，甚至發展成為戀人，但另一個只能成為泛泛之交。

我想天父做我們每一個人的時候真的十分精細，再平凡的人都會有自己獨特之處，而這獨特之處便是我們的吸引力；所謂的「緣份到」便是碰到懂得欣賞你的人。感恩身邊有不少好友懂得欣賞小妹的「獨特之處」，同樣地我也十分欣賞在看這篇文章的你們！

I wanna say........

"Good morning!" when you call and wake me up every morning....
"That's very nice of you!" when you come to have lunch with me and pick me up after work......

"Have fun!" when you want to play some games....

"I appreciate it!" for you always keep your promises.....

"I'm ok!" when you're worried about me.....

"I'll take good care of myself!" when we can't see each other.....

"I'm very happy!" ever since you came into my life.....

"I need you!" when I'm weak....

"Thank you!" for being there for me......

"I love you!"........forever.......

Movies Love Quotes

Good Will Hunting
"If I asked you about love, you'd probably quote me a sonnet. But you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable, known someone that could level you with her eyes. Feeling like God put an angel on Earth just for you, who could rescue you from the depths of Hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel. To have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer."

First Knight
"I take the good with the bad. I can't love people in slices."

Love Actually
"I love you even when you're sick and look disgusting."

Love Story
"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


When Harry Met Sally
"I love that you get cold when it is 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

"When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

想念...

上了曾任教小學的網站，在照片中看到一些熟悉的面孔...自我去年離任至今，有13位老師離職，當中有些仍擔負起春風化雨的職份，有些已不知去向。看見這些曾一起為學生並肩作戰的戰友，心裡不其然泛起很多回憶。但令我最想念的還是那些1D班的學生...因我曾教他們英文及數學兩主科所以感情特別深厚~恩祈、家權、倩如、Ronnie....這些小朋友在我最後一年的教學生涯中畫上了一個完美的句號。

A souvenir of a mellow trip

It'll be with me forever.....

Bone of my bone...

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Bone of My Bone, Flesh of My Flesh

Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse. "You don't own because you didn't ask", God said. Not only I asked for a spouse but also explained what kind of spouse I wanted. I wanted a nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful spouse. I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dreamt about. As time went by, I added the required list of my wanted spouse.

One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: "My servant, I cannot give you what you want."
I asked, "Why God?"
God said, "Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do are true and right."
I asked, "God, I don't understand why I cannot have what I asked from you?"
God answered, "I will explain. It is not fair and right for Me to fulfill your demand because I cannot give something that is not your own self. It is not fair to give someone who is full of love to you if sometimes you are still hostile, or to give you someone generous but sometimes you can be cruel; or someone forgiving, however, you still hide revenge; someone sensitive, however, you are very insensitive..."

He then said to me: "It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all the qualities you are searching rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already have the qualities you want. Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and you will see yourself in him/her and both of you will be one.

Marriage is like a school. It is a life-long span education. It is where you and your partner make adjustments and aim not merely to please each other, but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork. I do not give you a perfect partner, because you are not perfect either. I give you a partner with whom you would grow together."

** Keep this in mind. This is for all: the recently married, the ones who have been married, the soon to get married, and the ones who are still looking.**